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I'm still sorta skeptical... I've already caught a few lies
That sounds like you're waiting there with a net.
For evidence that you are right, it's too good to be true.
The Sun/Mercury/Pluto combination can be a little bit paranoid ~ I know, I lived with it for 18 years (mother). Also, inflexible, so I know it is unlikely to change anything by me pointing this out.
You both have Moon in Pisces, which is a good starting point as you have something strong in common, your emotional reaction to the world. What I think is really nice here is that his Moon/Jupiter combination Trines into your difficult triple Scorpio combination I mentioned above. That is something inherently gentle and supportive in your relationship. It doesn't have to be too good to be true.
His Moon is also Trine Venus/Pluto in Scorpio. There is the intensity you are picking up on, but it as a harmonious flow. I'd suggest not prising the lid too much, give it chance to spill out naturally in the course of your relationship. I have Moon/Pluto and can say I do not take well to prising. If he seems controlled, there's a reason. That's his inbuilt defence mechanism. Don't poke it.
As your Mars is 3 degrees away from his Pluto, there is a danger in dredging up things that are best left to lie. Let it come out naturally. Pluto is like a Volcano, put the aggression of Mars on top of it and you don't know what you might unleash. Tread a careful path ~ this is potent energy.